Monthly Archives: February 2016

MY OTHER KINK – well sort of

This picture contains two things that form an important part of my life: homemade bread and good coffee. Obviously I would like semi-naked women around the breakfast table to be an important part of my life also but sadly, it just ain’t so.

ELust #79 – including a post from me

Welcome to Elust #79 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #80? Start with the rules, come back March 1st… Read More »


Anal sex: taboo, dirty, unnatural, filthy. I am, more accurately I ‘was’, a bit of a prude with this. I struggled for years with the idea of what is a staple of many people’s Domme/Sub sessions and turned it down on many occasions in my early BDSM life.

KINKY MARQUETRY – in an old town hall!

Recently I was walking though the Town Hall Hotel in Bethnal Green on the way to lunch with a beautiful mistress. We had just had a session at the amazing London Dungeon Hire which is nearby and I was feeling bruised and hungry. In an upstairs corridor, to my absolute amazement we came across a series… Read More »


A scenario where one player appears, at least on the surface, to be forcing some action on another against their will can be the most thrilling of BDSM scenes. It requires trust, good communication and a deep understanding of where the submissive player’s real limits are. This little story draws somewhat on an actual scenario… Read More »

HUNT ME DOWN (PLEASE) – fight or flight

The way the body responds to threats is controlled by ancient systems that developed when our ancestors had to be super-vigilant to avoid becoming lunch for early predators. Complex chemical and nervous pathways evolved that enhanced the ability to react to danger. Collectively these are known as the Fight or Flight response and I am… Read More »

RUNWAY HIT – a spanky short story

In the ‘Lippie’ short story competition each entrant was given the name of a Lipstick and had to use that for a story. I got  “Runway Hit”. Being male I immediately thought of planes and the smell of burning fuel rather than the fashion show type of runway that was no doubt in the mind… Read More »