This picture contains two things that form an important part of my life: homemade bread and good coffee. Obviously I would like semi-naked women around the breakfast table to be an important part of my life also but sadly, it just ain’t so.
Sensory overload – When the six senses: sight, sound, touch, smell, taste, & proprioception in any combination become stimulated so as to induce a temporary haze of brain confusion. (UrbanDictionary.com)
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AT LAST! The kinky diet you have all been waiting for: THE BDSM DIET. The thing is: It works! Continue reading
My wife is vanilla. To be more vanilla she would need to be in a cone with sprinkles on top. She is also lovely, warm, funny, clever and successful in her business. I added a set of initials to the complex lexicon of Kink just for her: I refer to her as LBV, Lovely But Vanilla. Continue reading
Anal sex: taboo, dirty, unnatural, filthy. I am, more accurately I ‘was’, a bit of a prude with this. I struggled for years with the idea of what is a staple of many people’s Domme/Sub sessions and turned it down on many occasions in my early BDSM life.
In a series of recent posts New York based Mistress Darcy explained that she was a Pro Domme and not a Pro Top and therefore what happened in a session was entirely down to her not to the submissive client. While, in the complex lexicography of BDSM, this distinction may be accurate it isn’t, in my view, helpful or constructive…
Recently I was walking though the Town Hall Hotel in Bethnal Green on the way to lunch with a beautiful mistress. We had just had a session at the amazing London Dungeon Hire which is nearby and I was feeling bruised and hungry. In an upstairs corridor, to my absolute amazement we came across a series of marquetry pictures set in a wood panelled walls. This is the most kinky but many of the others were pretty lewd.
I found this on the artist:
Debbie Lawson is inspired by the drama of the events that take place within interior spaces. She commonly uses carpet, wood, and other common domestic materials. For Town Hall Hotel, she created …….Love Lane, Victorian porn vignettes in marquetry line a small hallway, an homage to Bethnal Green’s shady past as a hub for prostitution and other social services.
I love the line “hub for prostitution and other social services”
A scenario where one player appears, at least on the surface, to be forcing some action on another against their will can be the most thrilling of BDSM scenes. It requires trust, good communication and a deep understanding of where the submissive player’s real limits are. This little story draws somewhat on an actual scenario I played out with a mistress. I will leave you to guess which bits are real…
The way the body responds to threats is controlled by ancient systems that developed when our ancestors had to be super-vigilant to avoid becoming lunch for early predators. Complex chemical and nervous pathways evolved that enhanced the ability to react to danger. Collectively these are known as the Fight or Flight response and I am acutely conscious of mine every time I arrange a submissive BDSM session with a Mistress. Continue reading
In the ‘Lippie’ short story competition each entrant was given the name of a Lipstick and had to use that for a story. I got “Runway Hit”. Being male I immediately thought of planes and the smell of burning fuel rather than the fashion show type of runway that was no doubt in the mind of the mysterious lipstick namer (now there’s a job!). I decided to re-locate an old fantasy. Here goes: Continue reading