Some of my most memorable times with sex workers have been when I’ve been able to give someone an experience they haven’t had before. I don’t even mean just kinky experiences; Lilly’s trip to Cirque Du Soleil, and Elita’s first visit to the Royal Opera House were wonderful too.
Recently, I was lucky enough to introduce the completely delightful Miss Donna Hardy to the very particular sorts of fun that can be had in a BDSM dungeon. She seemed both nervous and excited in our pre-session communication, that nervousness no doubt increased by the complete absence of any description of what we were going to do. I love that she accepted the idea of only having a place and a time for our meeting; no detailed pre-session negotiation.
I can see why my being aroused by someone being nervous, even scared, before a meeting with me might seem wrong. I think what does it for me is the fact that, despite her fear and her trepidation, she is still there; in this case standing more or less naked, just where I told her to in the ante room of a dungeon she has yet to see, allowing me to put a blindfold over her eyes. That does it for me because the gap between how she is feeling and how she is behaving can only be filled by one thing and that is trust.
And trust is such a beautiful, erotic, intimate thing for two people to share.
This session was amazing; full of eroticism and exploration; full of sensations hard and soft; full of orgasms denied and orgasms forced. Donna was wonderful, she really was. Her body was always deliciously responsive to my touch; a parting of the lips as I ran my hand over her nipples; an arching of her back as I slowly trailed the leather tails of a flogger over her clitoris. Such memories we made.
Miss Hardy has now written a rather wonderful post about this session which you can find here.
The wonderful harness in the image, my gift to Donna to celebrate this exploration of submission, comes from Joanna Lark. Their BDSM gear is always great quality and on-line ordering is super easy.
We met at the Blue Door Dungeon in central London. The refurbishment of this place continues and it improves every time I visit. Definitely recommended for kinky fun.
(Couldn’t use this month’s theme I’m afraid) More Sunday sin here:
I have that harness, well I do if it has an anal hook attached!
Ms.Hardy looks bloody incredible in it x
Trust and fear are sexy because they are something to be conquered together.
Oh I do love that harness . . . and the lighting is simply wonderful !!!
Xxx – K
Wonderful pic!
What a wonderful harness. That nervousness is arousing and Miss Donna Hardy is beautiful xx
Amazing photo love the harness
She looks really beautiful in that harness. You are a generous man, and I don’t mean only in material things…
Rebel xox
“That does it for me because the gap between how she is feeling and how she is behaving can only be filled by one thing and that is trust.”
From my submissive side of the slash, that trust allows for me to face more fear, which is in turn a huge turn on.
That harness is gorgeous as is Miss Donna Hardy
Molly