Category Archives: Guest posts

THE SPANKER’S STORY – guest post

I first met this guy, we’ll call him ‘M,’ online through my twitter account and we became regular DM correspondents. He told me he related strongly to the depth of emotional engagement I describe in my sessions with professional Dommes and subs and he described his own, similarly intense, feelings about his sessions with professional… Read More »


I owe Mistress Elita a great debt for bringing the very lovely Miss Lilly Watson into my life exactly a year ago. That Elita should have been happy for me to be the very first client at the start of her friend’s journey into sex work seemed a great honour and privilege.

MELODY’S STORY – part 2 – chastity

In her second post melody talks about her chastity and the development of it through her longstanding relationship with a Mistress. I find the way she describes the development of melody as a distinct identity, an important part of his/her complete makeup, very compelling. It’s a deeply personal tale of growth in BDSM and I… Read More »

SPANKING – another level (guest post)

Its not often I get a comment longer that the post  being commented about! Kim recently left this comment on a very early post about my love for spanking.  I found the way she writes about her desire to be spanked way past the point of tears very intense. I have to admit that the idea… Read More »

MELODY’S STORY, PART 1 – submission

Today I have a guest post for you. This comes from Melody who occasionally writes insightful extended comments on my blog. If you walked in on Melody and I mid-session you would be struck by the similarities; a male tied to a bench being beaten by a dominatrix. You might think our kinks were the same.