Category Archives: Miscellany

SEX WORK, RESPECT AND TIME

A comment recently popped into a blog post from last year where I had written about “Intimacy and the Girlfriend Experience.” In contrast to the wonderfully affectionate connection that I had described, the person writing the comment had found his  experience cold, perfunctory and altogether less joyful.

EROTICON – meet and greet

Having told everyone I wasn’t going to Eroticon, as I was going on holiday instead, a late change of plan actually sees me spending some time at the annual sex-bloggers conference. As one of the reasons for cancelling the holiday was to spend time with my son, I can hardly disappear for the whole weekend,… Read More »

COLD SMOKE – finding the flow

They’re younger than me, these guys. And fitter. After two days I’m wondering why I’m here. In this company, with their second homes and expensive cars, I feel the poor relation, unsuccessful in life and love. It’s nonsensical to feel this way but, after two days of fighting my skis, fighting my lack of fitness,… Read More »

A YEAR IN 12 POSTS

Somehow this blog is still here.  I am constantly disobeying my own instructions to myself to take it down; yet, at the end of 2017 here it is and running at eight or nine thousand page reads a month which seems like a lot for so niche a subject area!

ELUST 97 – the month’s best erotica

Welcome to Elust 97– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #97 Start with the rules, come back September 1st to… Read More »

Elust 95 – this month’s best erotica

Welcome to Elust 95– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #96 Start with the rules, come back July 1st to… Read More »

THE INGENUE AND THE VAMP – oh, and me

When I walked into Elita’s house for our session her friend Lilly was sat in a chair, all blond curls and red lips, looking up at me from slightly hooded eyes. Her nervousness showed in the tight wrap of her gown around her body, concealing her lingerie where a more confident escort might have  emphasised it enticingly though… Read More »

EROTICON – virtual meet and great

My kinks are firmly kept in the closet, surrounded by the trappings of an outwardly vanilla life, a wife, kids, a job. Eroticon is at the weekend so obviously I can’t go! Or can I? If the stars remain in alignment I shall indeed be there, not for all of it, possibly not for much… Read More »