HER. HER CHAIR (sinful sunday)

The Sinful Sunday theme is “Chairs” this week. I really like the chair in Lyra’s smart apartment in New England. It’s stylish and comfortable. Oh, and it’s made of cold steel and warm leather! What’s not to like?

PEGGING (sinful Sunday)

When I started exploring my kinks, I was squeamish about anal play until one day Elita took me apart that way, leaving me quivering and gasping in a puddle of sweat, not quite able to believe what had just happened.

TOP CROP (kotw)

A riding crop is the classic gateway drug for impact play. Go to Ann Summers in Oxford Street and, alongside all the sexy underwear and nurses outfits, I’m sure you’ll find a “kink for beginners” kit with some faux leather cuffs, a blindfold and a riding crop. It will only be 12 or 14 inches long,… Read More »

TENDER VIOLENCE (sinful sunday)

What a mind fuck this is! We ‘discovered’ this position the other day. Her arms are tight round my waist, and get tighter the harder I spank her. The hand you can’t see is gently stroking her hair.

THREAT (sinful sunday – kotw)

She has a punishment kink. It bothered me at first, because at least some of it is deep rooted in a complicated past. Now, knowing her better, I’m more happy to engage with it, not least because I too have a punishment kink.

FIRST TIME (sinful sunday 600)

Sinful Sunday has been important to me ever since I started blogging, connecting me to a group of wonderfully non-judgemental people who were intrigued, fascinated or, occasionally, even turned on by my exploits.

FILTERS (sinful sunday)

I have no great skill at this photography business but “garbage in, garbage out” is a useful maxim in a multitude of spheres, and the “well spanked bottom” image from my New England trip seemed strong enough to survive me messing around with PIXLR filters.

CANING – GOING ALL THE WAY (KOTW)

Kink Of The Week for this period is “Caning,” something I know a bit about, having explored both sides of a caning (giver and receiver) extensively. I approached my friend and occasional play partner Honey with the idea that we write about both sides of the caning I had given her at the end of… Read More »

PARTY – THE BOTTOM (sinful sunday)

Honey’s amazing birthday party, which I already wrote about here, was such an amazing experience for me. I got to explore new things with new people and to let my dominant, toppy side out in company where it was appreciated, even sought after. That felt good.