THREAT (sinful sunday – kotw)

She has a punishment kink. It bothered me at first, because at least some of it is deep rooted in a complicated past. Now, knowing her better, I’m more happy to engage with it, not least because I too have a punishment kink.
It’s always been there: in my fantasies, in the porn I’ve sought out, in my occasional exploration of literature on historical corporal punishment. It was there in my request for a  judicial caning scene, played out with Elita and her man.

But, until now, it’s not been a large part of my play as a Dom. To me, spanking and caning are just specific types of impact play and only become punishment if a real or imagined rule has been transgressed or a crime committed. That can only happen in a role play scene or in a DS relationship that includes negotiated rules.

She sent me a borderline inappropriate message a week before my flight, and immediately apologised. I responded with this:

You can’t say that in my WhatsApp!
I’m going to spank you for that.
With the hairbrush.
Think about it.

She responded that she didn’t have a hairbrush!

Hahahahahaha. I do.

It’s ancient. It was my parents’ and was what I would use to spank myself with in the early days of exploring my relationship with pain as a teenager. That somehow made the idea of using it in a scene especially interesting.

The sense of threat developed as my departure came closer. I sent her a picture of the brush and described exactly how the spanking would be.

The spanking itself was hot too, despite us both being in the grip of the same cold.

I’ve never had to fight so hard to hold someone down while I spanked them. She was crying out and fighting to the point where I reminded her of the safe word. I’m not going to lie, the violence of it was hot for me. Incredibly hot. She made it clear afterwards, when she was quiet again and had her breathing under control, that it had been incredibly hot for her too.

So this is a thing between us now. The threat of punishment  The carrying out of punishment. The separation of that from our normal play.

For me, it’s new, it’s exciting and it’s edgy as fuck!

More Sunday sin here:

More threat based kink here:

I’m sorry for using one post for both memes but, in my defence, I do still have a cold and there’s a bottom next to me that might need spanking again!