HARD LIMIT – losing my cherry (sinful sunday)

It’s my oldest, hardest limit. Being hit there….y’know…. there. So ball busting, the BDSM practise where the Dominatrix kicks the submissive in his testicles, that’s never going to happen, right? But what if it was to happen? Just once.

Elust 91 – best erotica from around the web

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DUNGEON – three (sinful sunday)

Occasionally, when flush with guilt-free poker winnings, I will book both a dominant and a submissive for a session of sensual kink, immersing myself in conflicting sensations of pain and pleasure as we play games of power and control. The feeling is of having all my buttons pressed simultaneously.

THREESOME – part 1 – prepared

There really was no excuse for this. Overwhelmed by January’s relentless mundanity? Weeks, months even, of barely talking to my partner? Brexitrump? Perhaps I just needed to switch it all off and throw myself into a few hours of hedonistic pleasure. A couple of nice wins at poker provided the final impetus and the funds.


My earliest lesson on the importance of safewords was a harsh one. In my very first session with a professional Mistress, and with no experience whatsoever, the physical and emotional shock of her assault on me was so great that I blanked the safeword, forgot even that I had given her a safeword before the… Read More »