Category Archives: The nature of kink

There were only two of us in the barbershop for my first post-lockdown haircut; me and the young Turkish haircutter. I guess the immediate post lockdown rush had subsided and it was a mid-week morning.

Very early in my exploration of the thrilling underworld of Dominatrix’s, discipline and dungeons, I enjoyed a book by a Canadian professional Mistress working in London. She described a session with a disabled client on whom she performed fisting, a fairly extreme BDSM act. I was touched by the client’s wonder that the same body… Read More »

Dom, Sub; Top, Bottom; Sadist, Masochist. Pick one! I don’t want to pick one. I can’t pick one.

“Again!“ I ask her. “Another twelve. Make them just like that last one.” She steps back a little, takes a couple of practise swings and SWISHHH… THWACKKK. I involuntarily suck air in fast then breathe it out slowly, willing the sudden pain out of my body with my breath. Jeez, she’s getting better at this.

”Make a birch and bring it one time,” she said. The suggestion didn’t come out of a clear blue sky, we had talked about this kind of game, but what an enticing request! It plays right into a very real kink for me, one that’s picked up by this weeks’s Kink Of The Week subject.

Kinky playmate Miss Hardy was sat with me drinking tea, as we waited for the third member of our threesome to join us.

Well, obviously I have to write a Kink Of The Week post on this week’s theme of Dominatrix. How could I not? About half my blog is tales of female domination and male submission as I explore the outer reaches of my masochism. But where to start? A session description? A tour of the different… Read More »

My most popular blog post was written early in my life as Bibulousone and describes my personal experience of being caned, breaking it down into steps from pre-caning anticipation to post-caning calm. This has been read over 12,000 times, a number growing at about 1,000 a month. Type “experience of caning” into Google and there it is… Read More »