“Could we try something a little different? I’d like you to dress like you just walked the dog, wear no makeup and, at the end of the session, be completely naked as you beat me?” Not all Mistresses are looking for this level of input to a session but Elita has always been great about indulging my fantasies.
And not all Mistresses would even consider being naked in front of a client.
What a special, beautiful little session this was. It was SO different for me and yet I’m struggling to explain why.
Was it perhaps, that without the distance created by the Domme’s archetypal uniform of makeup and lingerie, there seemed to be a slight ambiguity about what was happening. That ambiguity was only imagined, but that didn’t stop it being there and impacting the session, possibly for both of us.
Was it perhaps the sense that I wasn’t so much sessioning with my Mistress, the imperious, slightly reserved Elita, unobtainable Goddess that she is, but with that “other” person, the multi-talented photographer, model, musician; the lapsed catholic, dog-owning, girl-next-door, who shares a skin with “Dominatrix” Elita. There was definitely a sense of this being, if not someone else then “Elita, but not as we know her”, creating added layers mystery and intrigue to our interaction.
Was it that she let me touch her, my hands on her thighs or her waist while she hurt me, lending intimacy to the act, or that at the end, as I recovered, she lay next to me, her naked body touching mine. She jumped up after a few moments, as if suddenly realising where she was and feeling that it was somehow wrong for her to be there. So close to me. So naked.
These are not really what has left me moved by this session, though the final suggestion gets close. What I was most struck by was how affected Elita obviously was by it. She’s been naked in a scene with me before (though briefly and only standing behind me with a cane) so this was unexpected. In our conversations after the sessions I learned new things about Elita, little insights into her preparations for a session and how, denied those preparations, she felt almost vulnerable.
The role of Dominatrix is often portrayed in a very one dimensional way; the truth is usually much more complex and, consequently much more interesting, whether you meet the Dominatrix in her dungeon or at her piano recital.
I love that BDSM still throws curve balls at me.
It seems that Elita feels the same way!
Elita’s thoughts on the session
Well that was certainly new and different! Amazing how, even after all of these years, I still have things that are taboo to me…and not necessarily things you might expect! Thanks B for making the suggestion, it was amazing 💋
— Elita Darling (@MistressElita) May 16, 2018
Like Rebel, I really enjoyed reading both of your thoughts on this
I love reading both your thoughts on this session!
Rebel xox
Very interesting perspectives from both of you.
I found this to be an interesting paradox with my former mistress. For clients she needed the armour to hide behind, without the makeup, the corset and the boots she would feel too vulnerable to see them. I got to see her with the armour and the masks off. I know which I preferred.
Lovely to see how much you both continue to explore and learn.
How very interesting, and how honoured you were, that she let her mask slip and you saw behind it. Wonderfully told, I think having Mistress Elita’s input at the end really balanced it.