Strange weekend, this. It’s my wife’s sixtieth birthday weekend and the house will be full of her family, most of whom know that we’re getting divorced.
Our two boys, however, don’t know that we’re getting divorced, although I suspect they may have worked some of it out for themselves. I really want to tell them and might insist on it after this weekend.
It is all going to be thoroughly strange. As always, I shall deal with it by immersing myself in the preparation of an elaborate meal for 14 people that everyone will love; I will tweet pictures of mountains of flavoursome slow-smoked pork and enjoy the appreciation; I shall drink too much at the pub on Saturday night with my brother and my oldest and cook a huge brunch on the morning of the bank holiday. These weekends have a predictable pattern.
It won’t be that bad, just strange. Like so much else at the moment it will feel like the turning of a page.
In the meantime, here is a sinful Sunday picture of my bottom.
Just because.
This was taken by the wonderful Mistress Elita just after she had given it a thorough beating. On top of a prolonged face slapping session this had made me feel floaty and relaxed. These days, any opportunity to feel floaty and relaxed is going to be grasped and enjoyed.
I wrapped myself up in that feeling for the next few days.
I’m thinking a lot about relationships at the moment. Earlier this week I wrote about a memory of a special time with my wife, making carefree love in a warm ocean.
It made me wonder what might have been.
More Sunday Sin here:
Secrets are so hard to keep especially ones that end up hurting people. I hope you made the best of the weekend and you get to share with your sons soon.
I think just because is a splendid reason. Also, I hope that the weekend is less stressful than you fear. I am sorry to hear you are going through all this.
I’m hoping everything goes smoothly in telling. They will probably say they already know, and have already processed it. But just expect lots of questions.
I hope the memories of Elitas sessions keep you focused and grounded over the next few weeks.
Missy x
I hope the weekend went well. I definitely think telling your kids would be a good idea. Finding out after everyone else can be a horrible feeling.
Mollyx
I hope you got through the weekend okay, that all went as well as it could. And yes, I agree with you, your boys should be told. I actually thought they knew already…
Great image!
Rebel xox
Wish the best for you and your family. Sometimes just because is the best cause!
Looks like a very nice bottom . . . and I enjoyed your ocean story too. Some nice, and different, memories to look back upon from your, presently, difficult times!
Xxx – K
Just because – is always a good reason – tough times, wish u well
Best of luck with everything x
I hope it goes as well as you hope for. 🙂
Great image.