First time I posted a Sinful Sunday.
As a masochist I have a love/hate relationship with bruises. I love the mark of where the Mistress has been, the reminder of something illicit, dark, sensual and challenging. I hate having to hide them when I return to my vanilla life, the risk of discovery, the feeling that my clothes cover a lie I don’t want to tell.
This particular bruise carried with it a high risk of discovery as it peeked above my underwear, unwelcome; discordantly shouting “look what I did.” It’s faded now but the memories remain.
A blog about this bruise and what it made me want to do is here.
More Sinful Sundays here:
Great debut shot! And yes, definitely looks like a bruise with a story behind it…
I have the same relationship with bruises too, but what I really hate is when I should be bruised but there’s no reminder mark
Welcome to Sinful Sunday! Look forward to seeing more great shots from you!
Welcome to Sinful Sunday! Isn’t it good fun?? And what a powerful photo to start! Xxx
Welcome to Sinful Sunday!
What a lovely bruise you have there, I’m so clumsy I usually have bruises anyway so nobody bats an eyelid if I turn up with any at work!
I am totally with you on bruises and marks, they are a huge kink for me. I don’t have the issue you have though so I am freely able to admire and love mine but I can totally see how when that is not the case it makes your relationship with them that bit more complex
mollyxxx
welcome to sinful sunday!
it is a lovely shot and bruise.
I am sure a lot of subs and masochists feel the same way.
Happy Sinful Sunday!
Thanks to everyone who commented. The Mistress knew I had to be careful but hitting someone this hard is not an exact science! I don’t blame her and am, in any case, out of the danger zone. Arnica is wonderful stuff!
A powerful bruise . . . and a powerful post-link too.
I do sympathize with both parts of your “I do want to say” . . . and “I can’t ” . . .
I’m sure it is difficult and only you know what is right for you and your relationship.
On the bruising aspect . . . I always ask my subs first. Some want to be marked, some don’t . . . so that reflects the theme of my session, and the implements used. Shouldn’t you point that out to your Mistress???
Xxx – K
Welcome aboard Sinful Sunday. Lovely first post.
It’s a lovely bruise, but I can understand your love-hate relationship with bruises.
Rebel xox