D IS FOR DRESSED – sinful sunday

By | 1st July 2017

What to wear to a beating?

Why is it even a question? After all I’ve been entirely undressed at more or less every session I ever had and have barely given it a thought.

But I sometimes find myself wanting to wear something; wanting to wear something in a, frankly, rather fetishy way. Playing in a dungeon recently, I tried on a leather bondage harness and it felt good. I liked the way  the straps pressed on my skin, the tightness of it all, especially around my backside and the groin area. I liked it a lot. It made me focus on my body and what it was feeling.

Naked, I’m just a target for the Mistress; a toy for her to play with; the forlorn looking male in a Sardax sketch. Clothed, in the male equivalent of her lingerie, might I feel somehow different? Might it change the dynamic in some subtle way?

I visited a sex shop when I was in Las Vegas (as you do) and, amongst a few toys that shall remain nameless for now, I purchased the tight-fitting, ball-hugging, arse defining item of underwear shown below.

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I guess I’ll find out whether it does indeed feel different next time I have a session. It certainly feels pretty good right now.

It’s actually a good job I took this image. I had been assuming that, two weeks on, the evidence of the beating I was given before I went away would have entirely faded away. In the colour version of the picture the twin tracks of the Mistress’s cane are still evident. Vigilance, it seems, is still required.


More sin here:

Sinful Sunday


18 thoughts on “D IS FOR DRESSED – sinful sunday

  1. Mariasibylla

    So hot! I definitely feel sexier in certain clothes, I’m excited to see if it works for you 🙂 (I mean, this photo works for me, but, that’s not what I meant) 🙂

  2. Shalla

    Mmmmmmmm yes!!!

    I know for me… I feel sexier wearing something, even just a lil something and it changes everything in such a way that it’s all more intense

  3. Aurora Glory

    Live a black and white photo! I imagine it will feel very different. I have a fetish for strappy lingerie and adore your description of how the tight straps felt!
    Aurora x

  4. Exhibit A

    It’s one of those things I hadn’t thought about till I read your post, but yes, that makes total sense – of course what you wear will affect your experience! Love the way you wrote about this, and the image fits the words perfectly.

  5. Violet

    Like so many other commenters, I want to hear what the result is! Looking good in the meantime!

  6. The Other Livvy

    I love the idea that you might experience the session differently if you’re wearing different clothes – I look forward to reading about it! And that really is a strong and powerful image, it’s really good! Xxx

  7. LittleSwitchBitch

    I totally get when you – I find dressing myself in fetish related clothing helps to heighten my sense of touch as well as smell <3


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