Author Archives: Bibulous

FIRE (sinful sunday)

I’m in an AirBNB cottage near my parents, one I’ve used before. Together with my chef son, who arrives later, I’m cooking a birthday Sunday lunch for my mum and a bunch of friends and family.

SATURDAY IRONING (sinful sunday)

It might not sound much of a Saturday night. However, I had a wonderful night with my love earlier this week and I got to play poker this afternoon, so I’m cool with doing the ironing and watching some TV. I’ll pour some wine in a minute.

PETER’S STORY – BOOTS!! (guest post)

Every now and then, someone puts a comment on my blog that deserves its own space. Very few of the people who see a Dominatrix but otherwise keep their kinks private, as I was doing for many years, have a platform where they can expose their kinks to public scrutiny and, hopefully, enjoy the acceptance… Read More »

SUNDAY ROAST (sinful sunday)

I’m in her kitchen, massaging garlic, cinnamon and lemon juice into a half-shoulder of lamb. It’s Greek Kleftiko. The dish is that unusual thing, a holiday food that actually works at home.

MAKING IT (KOTW)

”Make a birch and bring it one time,” she said. The suggestion didn’t come out of a clear blue sky, we had talked about this kind of game, but what an enticing request! It plays right into a very real kink for me, one that’s picked up by this weeks’s Kink Of The Week subject.

UTILITY ROOM DOOR (sinful sunday)

“Oh hi!” I said, as the utility room door opened, “I didn’t expect to see you up yet! I just popped down to make some tea and thought I’d load the dishwasher while the kettle boils.”

WOK IT (sinful sunday)

I admit it; I enjoyed the appreciation of my last Sinful Sunday. If you get to my age, and you spend as much time as I do complaining about your own body, publishing a picture of it that gets a bunch of favourable comments, and a Sinful Sunday top five call out, is a fun… Read More »

APART

I got into trouble on twitter once for referring to ours as a “distance” relationship. The 50 or so miles that separate us and the “see each other most weeks” nature of it clearly seem like unimaginable luxury to those struggling to make attachments work over much greater distances. But apart is apart, and I… Read More »

BLOGGING. LIFE. OTHER STUFF.

It may not have escaped the notice of regular readers that my customary, two posts a week, blogging output has dried up somewhat over the last several months. In part, this is because I’ve been struggling to work out what I actually want this blog to be in my new life, or if it has… Read More »