I suppose that, if I were less of a prude, I might have called this post “Making Love And Fucking” but “Fucking” is not a word I wanted to see in the title of a post. Still prudish after all this time. Over the last couple of years it has been a truly wonderful thing to return to… Read More »
After I’ve been playing dominant games for a while, my submissively masochistic side will often start prodding me with increasing urgency. “Oi!” it seems to be saying; “What about me?”. Eventually, inevitably, it becomes the itch that has to be scratched.
It’s expensive what I do. Very expensive. As it should be. The people I play with are educated, articulate, independant women who have made a choice to do what they do. Furthermore, they have made a choice to see me above others who have sought their time, so it’s a privilege to be allowed to… Read More »
Already, after my very first use of it, I’m a big fan of bondage tape. It’s cheap, easy to apply, makes no mess and only sticks to itself. Oh, and one more thing: it’s as sexy as….. well, it’s very, very sexy. Isn’t it.….
In the ante room at The Bunker in London, venue for some recent role play naughtiness, there’s a tiny alcove in the stone that’s been turned into a cage.
I took a risk in my recent interrogation scene with Katie. I did something that, at the time, felt really hard-core; something beyond conventional BDSM; something that made it all very real.
Important: this post contains descriptions of consensual non-consenting violence, physical abuse and sex. While this was role play between two fully consenting adults, I realise that this is not for everyone. If you feel any of this might be difficult for you, please do not read on.
Warning: This post discusses simulated and non-consensual violence and simulated non-consensual sexual intercourse. If you think this might be difficult for you for any reason, then I respectfully suggest you turn away. All my play is 100% consensual and carefully discussed with my play partner before the scene and consent is reaffirmed often during it.… Read More »
One of the enjoyable and, frankly, hilarious things about my blog, that still makes me smile every time it happens, is the occasional “Nice Bum” comments. Note, not “Nce Marks” or “Nice Cane Work” but “Nice Bum.” Complements about my body dried up a long time ago, so I’ll take them where I can get… Read More »
I have been caned, but not by Elita. So why the picture of a catamaran? Bear with me.
I don’t think I could handle a Dominant/Submissive session where I had to be unremittingly stern all the way though. BDSM is fun to me and sooner or later, usually sooner, my Domly Dom face is going to crack because I find something funny. Fortunately Lilly, my kinky play partner thinks the same way.
It may surprise you to know that all the historical details contained in this letter from my imaginary, immoral Victorian alter ego, Wackford Squeers, to his good friend, Dr J Mortimer Granville are accurate. Granville was indeed the inventor of the electromechanical vibrator. My principal source is here. And yes, I really did tie Lilly to… Read More »