Why does being whipped affect me in such a different way to being caned? The sensations are certainly very different, but this is not about sensations for me; it’s about the emotions, especially the day/after emotions.
My last caning was too much; it left me shocked by its violence. Let’s put that to one side. Normally a caning leaves me high as a kite, the sense of having survived a trial making me feel strong, powerful and in control of myself. It’s cathartic and renewing.
Yesterday I was whipped. Only three or four times has being whipped been the core of a session, the main event. Today my back is prickling with heat against my shirt and my nipples are so sore I can’t touch them (being whipped wasn’t the only thing I had to contend with).
But it’s the emotional response I recognise from previous whippings. In place of the post caning high-fiving, extrovert, today finds me deep inside myself, all thinky introvert. I’m emotionally thin-skinned, a radio story about a cancer sufferer bringing unwanted tears to my eyes.
I feel…
I feel…
I feel “small.”
I’m 6’2”, a big man, and I feel small; insignificant in the face of the overwhelming flows of emotions arising from having been whipped by my Mistress.
I feel vulnerable and exposed. A bit lost.
It’s happened every time I’ve experienced this type of session, my response the exact polar opposite to that of being caned.
And I have absolutely no idea why!
March 2021. I’ve notice that people are starting to find this post. I love it when that happens. If you’d like to read more about the experience of being whipped here are a few links;
- A super-intense session where I was whipped by my Mistress until I broke down.
- A session with an American Dominatrix who used a bull-whip to create fear as much as pain.
- Nice marks after a whipping from a new Mistress.
I always like to get whipped but I have different fantasy. First I like to be naked, having black thread tied on my waist and two strands black thread around my neck. Then I would like to get my hand tied up or spread across and having intense whipping with wrapped around lashes. Each lash gives me immense sensation and feeling of ecstasy.
I love being whipped!!
I absolutely love the sexual pleasure of feeling the sting from being whipped on the buttocks and thighs. The cane also gives much pleasure, but must be wielded by another. A short 3ft whip used skillfully by myself can bring me to orgasm in less than twenty strokes. I, like others here , have tried in vain to persuade my wife to play the role of Dominatrix but so far to no avail.
Reply to steven p. I can sure tell you what it is like to be whipped with a cord . it’s hell and you will not like it ever . Years ago i was tied hand and foot and ass whipped with a lamp cord . If this is what you are thinking about don’t do it. My butt was well damaged for over two weeks . My tool of choice is a 2 inch wide leather belt single or doubled over . when i was a kid my dad would always use his belt and it sure worked . When i got into serious ass whipping as an adult i built a whip from a wide leather strip with a wooden handle . On my best day i took 400 with this . 200 standing and 200 tied to a bed in sets of 25 -30 with oil rubbed in between each set. She stopped at 400 when some blood started as that was a hard limit for me . I f not for that i think i could have taken more , i was really into it . I know your fantasy is an electric cord and i have seen men and women take canes ans rods but they had built up to these over time , but if you have not don’t do it please . ED.
I happened on this page and WOW. I find like souls. I cry out to be tied up, whipped and abused by my wife. She refuses. I have tried pros twice, to no avail. There is something missing when my wife isn’t the dominant aggressor.
She is in my dreams, however I can’t get her to put her mind into it. I’ll keep trying, but it has been 50 years and I’m still waiting.
My wife and I have a female lead relationship. It’s not like the fantasy stories with with wives dressing their husbands as maids. She likes me to be physically strong. To be proactive in doing the things I do. She and I both recognise that me submitting to her whipping me emphasises the different roles. I am masochistic to a degree but the whippings far exceed any titillation and in a way allow her to bring forth some dominance and sadism. Interestingly when we first started she was not into doing the physical thing at all but I asked her to. Now she’s very comfortable and it’s brought out a side of her that’s surprised both of us.
What a beautiful relationship to have with your wife. Both lovers giving and receiving what they want from eachother. The sexual gratification both receive must be extremely satisfying. I, as a submissive, like yourself, have been trying to persuade my wife to whip me, but to no avail as yet. I satisfy my craving by selfwhipping which, I must say leaves me highly aroused and occasionally having an orgasm.
I am naked, suspended by my wrists to a hook in the ceiling such that I can barely stand on my tippy toes. My ankles are cuffed together. I wear a ball gag fastened tightly and locked. I am absolutely helpless. I have been thoroughly whipped to start our session and now I wait for the second round. My breathing is fast as I anticipate what will be next. Our little morality play is always the same. The first whipping is to focus my mind; the second whipping is for much needed punishment. In anticipation, I am terrified of how much she will make it hurt. I wanted to be terrified, but now the metallic taste of fear reminds me how painful it actually will be. The reality of my predicament trumps the fantasy. But I deserve this and need this to quiet the demons.
I have always wanted to get my bare butt whipped with a cord by a female so hard that I cry , but it continues to get whipped across my butt. I have always wanted to get it as hard a a female can make it as I lay over the bed “pants and underwear off. And after she’s done she hugs me and tells me that I deserved it and that I will be fine. So yes, I want/need to experience it, but it just hasn’t happened yet. So I don’t know what it is like.
Just watched a woman whipping three men video. Once in my life I want that to happen. The
brutal pain, the sweet pain of the whip. Thinking you can not take anymore and yet it continues. Guys, what is it liked to be whipped by a woman? Richard.
There is something about the way an implement is used, how the punisher stands and how it has to be manipulated which gives a different feeling and with that different feeling, a different emotion. I love to be caned, well i don’t but i like what happens to my body afterwards, how I feel elated and high. I like the feeling of freedom and the touch to the red welted ribbed flesh.
Then there is the tawse, hard covering a larger area, flat and stinging the sensations in overload as each sickening thud arrives. It is not sharp just severe and unromantic. A loud crack, little noise as it travels through the air. It is an impersonal, unsophisticated tool which efficiently delivers pain and seeks out soft and vulnerable places where the skin is sensitive and unused to violent collision. The tawse does not leave one with elation more a secret smile but somethimes, when too much, tears and remorse and few positive feelings.
I found a lady from an ad i placed in the local paper for a massage person . After about 4 massage sessions she was very comfortable with me and i asked if she would consider giving me a few swats . I had always been in a thong or jockstrap for the massage sessions , never nude and she could tell i was always in a chastity device but said nothing. Our conversations both during the massages and on the phone were very open so a request for swats was almost expected . As luck would have it , she had been in the army and been very up for putting both men and women through PT sessions plus her own boot camp training. She had some very interesting ideas 0f her own for me as well including swats. Before Covid i had been going to my gym 3 times a week . When it was forced to close I soon put on an extra 15 pounds and was very unhappy but unable to loose it on my own . From now on she would be miss Cristi . We first talked about my chastity device and that i was self locking and would masturbate about every 2 weeks or so . She knew about male chastity and wondered why i had not said anything to her about it. I was wondering why she had not asked about it ? She would now keep the key and a numbered plastic lock would be added to the key lock. I had gotten 10 of these tags with my device but never used any of them . Life would now be very different . I would always be very turned on after a massage and would unlock as soon as i got home . Not this time . I was directed to pull down my jockstrap, this was in fact a boys jockstrap as i wanted it to be very tight and it was. She went into the next room and came back with a post stamp and some tape to insure i could not open the lock without damage to the stamp. I was directed to return the next day with the chastity key and all 10 tags. Also i would have to pay for my next massage up front . My weight would be checked each time and i would have to loose 1 pound every week . my next massage would be in 2 weeks but already be paid for . At that time before my weight check i would pay for the next massage , if i lost the weight i would get my massage if not i would loose the massage and the money for it and be punished and any weight i did not loose this time would be added to the weight i must loose the next time. Could it get worse ? I was not ever to say a word about my chastity device or when i would be unlocked . If i did well and pleased her it could happen so i was well motivated to loose the weight. But i would never know .