Author Archives: Bibulous

GOING ALL THE WAY

It’s a phrase teenagers use, or they did when I was one. “Did you go all the way?” or “Have they been all the way?” usually followed by a knowing snigger. Nowadays, it has a different meaning for me. Nowadays it implies finding the natural end of an impact play session; the point where no… Read More »

WAKE UP CALL

For reasons that I don’t feel I have yet got to the bottom of, Lyra’s submissive, masochistic side is less in evidence just now. It’s our 5th block of time together, and on the others my dominant playing with her submissive has been about two thirds of our kinky activity together. This time it’s at… Read More »

PURPLE (sinful sunday)

I’d have photographed myself in purple underwear if I had any, purple being the theme for this week’s Sinful Sunday. Instead you get this.

DOM! (sinful sunday)

Sat here in the kitchen on a cold Sunday morning, with my second coffee brewing and some opera on the speakers, I decided I really wanted to do a Sinful Sunday this week.  I knew why too.

DOUBLE TROUBLE (sinful sunday)

Poor Lyra. She was nervous as hell. We’d just checked into out hotel room in North London and the room wasn’t great. I tried to be reassuring but wasn’t getting through. The walk to the dungeon through a, frankly, rather seedy part of town only made things worse for her.

BUSY DIARY (revelations meme)

I’m late to the party but keen to participate in Molly’s new Revelations meme, the first theme for which is “Dear Diary.” It has given me a chance to order my thoughts about the last ten days, during which Lyra, my kinky lover from Persia via Montreal and New England, has been on her first… Read More »

CLIPPED (sinful sunday)

She’s back home now, but what a week we had! My Pocket Persian Pervert was here from the US for 10 days and we really filled those days.

THE THING I’D TELL MY YOUNGER SELF

Generalising in any writing about sex is dangerous; everyone’s experience is so different. But, generalising about orgasms, particularly female orgasms, seems even more fraught. Some operate on a hair trigger; a touch here, a rub there and “Booom!” For others, an orgasm is hard-won; something that requires a very specific set of circumstances to achieve.

TIME OUT (sinful sunday)

I have such a privileged life in my comfortable retirement that I always feel guilty when I complain about it. Nonetheless I’ve taken a couple of days away from my cold house and the pre-Christmas pressure to find everything delightful.

HER. HER CHAIR (sinful sunday)

The Sinful Sunday theme is “Chairs” this week. I really like the chair in Lyra’s smart apartment in New England. It’s stylish and comfortable. Oh, and it’s made of cold steel and warm leather! What’s not to like?

PEGGING (sinful Sunday)

When I started exploring my kinks, I was squeamish about anal play until one day Elita took me apart that way, leaving me quivering and gasping in a puddle of sweat, not quite able to believe what had just happened.