Having told everyone I wasn’t going to Eroticon, as I was going on holiday instead, a late change of plan actually sees me spending some time at the annual sex-bloggers conference. As one of the reasons for cancelling the holiday was to spend time with my son, I can hardly disappear for the whole weekend, so I am necessarily limiting my attendance to the Saturday evening function and some talks on Sunday morning.
I will be joined on Saturday night by my kinky play partner, Miss Lilly Watson. I am fully aware that to openly bring an escort to a social function is a highly unusual thing to do, but Lilly has been a huge part of my blog in the past year. And it is, in Eroticon terms at least, exactly a year. I arrived at the same function last year with Mistress Elita just half an hour after we had finished playing BDSM games with Lilly in her very first encounter as a sex worker. What a privilege and honour it was to have been considered by Elita to be a suitable client for what would have seemed a momentous event for her friend. Lilly describes that encounter and her first year in sex work here. She was texting Elita all evening with her enthusiastic reactions to the experience. I was just floating along happily and nodding whenever anyone spoke to me.
Since that first meeting, this lovely, warm, open person has brought sex back into my life after years of involuntary abstinence and has allowed me to refine and develop my dominant side to the point where I would now identify as a full switch rather than as a sub who occasionally likes to hand out spankings. Lilly has contributed several posts to the blog herself, describing our sessions and her responses to them with candour and warmth.
You may have pre-conceptions about sex work and about what type of people choose that life. Perhaps seeing a man nearing sixty with a beautiful woman half his age is going to strike a discordant note for you. Perhaps you are just curious as to what it’s like to sell sex, or indeed, to buy it. If so, then feel free to seek us out. It’s our evening too but, within reason, we’re happy to engage with anyone!
So here’s some stuff about me.
NAME (and Twitter if you have one): BibulousOne. It’s a daft name. If we chat I’ll give you another one.
What are you most looking forward to about Eroticon 2018? Meeting more of the amazing people with whom I have interfaced through twitter and the blog. Also being openly WITH Lilly in a social setting is going to be new and different.
Play list contribution: I describe my musical tastes as eclectic; my kids describe them as weird. I play a lot of Portuguese Fado music so they may have a point. If I was at the Friday night do I would choose Bill Withers and Lovely Day. It’s upbeat and light and I never tire of it.
What’s the first career you dreamed of having as a kid? Working in the technical side of movie making.
Weirdest place you’ve ever gotten up to mischief (define ‘mischief’ however you like…). In a gondola on a ski lift. It was cold and cramped but kind of fun.
Tell us two truths and a lie about yourself:
I once nearly died in a car accident
I once nearly died in an avalanche
I once nearly died while piloting a plane
Complete the sentence: I want… I want my kids to be happy and fulfilled
And here’s Lilly:
I’m Lilly Watson, and I’m an escort, which means I spend time being sensual and glamorous with generous gentlemen- and sharing a few laughs, too. I’ve always loved nostalgic glamour, the great Hollywood stars of the 40s and 50s, waved hair, red nail polish, that hourglass figure, and that all informs my personal style of dressing and day to day living.
NAME (and Twitter if you have one): Lilly Watson- @MissLillyWatson
What are you most looking forward to about Eroticon 2018? This will be my first time at Eroticon. I’m really looking forward to meeting people who write about sex.
What’s the first career you dreamed of having as a kid? I remember wanting to be a nun at some point, so I could hang out with other women and not get married. Which is kind of what I do today.
Weirdest place you’ve ever gotten up to mischief (define ‘mischief’ however you like…). I’m an old-fashioned girl in that respect. I like a candlelit bedroom with roses on the nightstand. I always draw the curtains, even if it’s the middle of the day.
Tell us two truths and a lie about yourself:
I used to wear stockings and suspenders to school, just to make myself feel glamorous
My favourite city is Paris
I never lie
Complete the sentence: I want… I’m really quite happy in my life right now. I can’t say I want for anything. I’m a very lucky girl.
So there you have it! We look forward to meeting you on Saturday!