I admit it. I quite enjoy the “Dom in a Suit, girl in lingerie” trope. I’ve played with it before. I can see why people have trouble with the patriarchal symbolism that comes with it, but it’s a role I like to play rather than who I am.
At least, I think it is.
The image comes from a meeting a few weeks ago with my favourite American submissive Katie D.
Our occasional sessions together definitely have a sense of progression, as Katie encourages me to push my boundaries as a Dom, and to play at the outer reaches of hers as a submissive, though I suspect we are, as yet, nowhere near the latter.
When I wrote of this session, two hours that were full of the erotic, the sexy and the downright violent, I described myself as “having my heart in my mouth” at one point. I’ve revisited that moment since. I was about to do something that seemed so extreme, so sickeningly cruel, that part of me wasn’t sure I was going to go through with it, the other part sensing its inevitability.
It was like a moment I remember on a skiing trip, my skis paused on the lip of an icy couloir; narrow, steep and terrifying. Would I push myself over the edge or pull back? Frightened by my knowledge of the answer.
It was like the moment when, after a long build up, Elita was about to kick me in the testicles; a moment with the same sense of time suspended, of sick inevitability, of being unsure I could let her complete the action and yet knowing also that I would. The same sense of having my heart in my mouth.
To be allowed to play such extreme games with a professional submissive is a real privilege and I love that Katie trusts me enough to go there.
It makes me wonder what we’ll do next time. I’m already a bit scared by that thought .
I tried to describe the intensity of this session with Katie in my earlier post
If you either don’t have testicles, or you are of strong constitution the ball kicking experience is here
I wrote this post before my trip to China, completely missing the fact that this was prompt week. Sarree.
More Sunday sin here:
The CMnf element really works for me, although I’m not a big fan of a Dom in a suit, I think I’ve been fucked too many times but men in suits and not in the good way! However, I do understand why it works for people.
I do find a clothed, or suited, male alongside a semi clad or trussed up in lingerie female an arousing dynamic to view, and partake in. I love the B&W shot best.
The lingerie/suit combo is ALWAYS super sexy!!
I love LOVE the man in a suit/woman naked or in lingerie. So this is right up my alley. But even more than that – I went over and read about your session with her. Mrow! Sooo fucking hot! CNC is a big trigger for me. Yum!
I love to play with a man in a suit whilst I’m in lingerie or nude. It’s a very hot dynamic captured very well in your photograph.
Aurora x
Arousing photo.
It is a very sexy picture and it is an dynamic, clothed man, naked or semi naked woman, that I do find very hot
Mollyx
You look very GQ!
Prefer the B and w one – I love it when i am half naked and my man is fully dressed – hot
I love this image – especially the b/w one. I enjoy the feeling of fully dressed man, me in my lingerie because actually my favourite sets of lingerie feel like armour of a type (as in I may have the upper hand because the view is so distracting!). Anyway I like the slight mismatch of vulnerabilities.
I enjoyed your descriptions of submissive games with Katie – think I’ll give the testicle kicking a swerve though! You guys are brave fools, but I know you love it! xx
I love the images you share, but I always love your words more. Still love reading about your experiences 😊
Rebel xox
Very sexy shot – you suit the ‘Dom in the Suit’ 😉 x
These are beautiful images. I love them. I don’t love it when similar dominate tumblr because it is a trope that is utterly unforgiving of different body types.
Beautiful image – works well in black and white.
I am so glad I haven’t needed to wear a suit for 20 years now.