Author Archives: Bibulous

A BIRTHDAY WHIPPING

I hadn’t wanted it the night before, tired and full of birthday food and good wine as I was. My mood had been more dominant than submissive too. But now, with London’s bright, morning light seeping round the edges of the still-drawn curtains, I asked her to use the two tailed whip. I was very… Read More »

BONDING (NETFLIX) – a client’s view

I’ve never written a TV review on here before, but then there havent been many TV series that show submissive male clients in session with their professional Dominatrix. “Bonding”, just out on Netflix, does exactly that, while also portraying the life and loves of the Dominatrix away from her dungeon. This is the world I… Read More »

STILL PLAYING WITH ELITA (sinful sunday)

I’m still playing with Elita, still being tested by her. I’m not seeing submissive escorts in the way I was, but Elita is still in my life handing out her very special brand of medicine. Just once in a while.

TELLING THEM

So finally, about four or five years since it all started to break down for the second time, nearly 2 years after we agreed we didn’t want to spend the rest of our lives together, and way too long after way too many other people had been told, we told our boys we are going… Read More »

IN THE MIRROR (kotw)

I’ve always like playing with Mirrors in BDSM sessions, whether I am dominant or submissive in the scene. When I am being beaten by Mistress Elita, I want to watch her, enjoy the depth of her focus on me, admire the turn of her lithe body, fear the force of her swing. I want to… Read More »

AUDIO – Anatomy of a caning

Having enjoyed reading a post about a particularly intense BDSM session to an audience at Eroticon, and then posted a recording, several folk encouraged me to do more audio porn.

THERAPY

LackOfContent warning: This post contains no sex or suggestive language; no pretty girls are spanked and there are no pictures or videos of Mistress Elita. You don’t even get to see my bum. If you are OK with these things, then please read on. If you’d like something more erotic, try this. Insomnia is an… Read More »

IN PUBLIC – THE LAST WORD (sinful sunday)

Of course, it may not be exactly the last word about my pubic session with Mistress Elita in a hotel room at the Eroticon Sex Writer’s conference, but, amazing and complex though the experience was, I need to put it away now and move on.

PUBLIC – A MASOCHIST’S VIEW

How wonderful to have yet another individual perspective of the public session I set up at Eroticon. My friend Honey looks at from her perspective as a fellow masochist. I love how connected she felt to the session.

WITNESS (guest post from @_MastersEye)

It’s fascinating to me that the people who I invited to watch Mistress Elita work her magic on me in a hotel room before Eroticon all seem to have taken different things from the event. I’m fascinated by how affected people where by what they saw. Here my good friend Eye describes her experience.

IN PUBLIC – ELITA’S EXPERIENCE

This is Mistress Elita’s account of how it was to carry out a session with me, her client, in public. I love what she says, especially at the end. I know from what they told me and the the writing some have shared that we had created an experience for the audience. We created an… Read More »

IN PUBLIC (sinful sunday)

FocussedAndFilthy took so many wonderful images from my recent and very public session with Mistress Elita that I’ve decided to go with another one for this week’s Sinful Sunday.