Category Archives: The nature of kink

THE GODDESS

“My worshipper, can you see how beautiful I am? Is worshipping me not your highest ambition? Will you suffer for me, my worshipper? How much will you suffer for me?”

PROFESSIONAL SUBMISSIVE

I saw Katie again. I hadn’t really meant to but our last session had been great, so just a couple of weeks later, and once again contemplating a lonely night in a hotel room, I contacted her. As before, we had a lot of fun; all kinds of hot, spanky sex.

“I REALLY ENJOYED YOU”

I suspect that, at least to some extent, we all hope for the same thing; we men-who-see-sex-workers; we clients. I suspect we all hope to leave something behind that goes beyond  the rumpled sheets, the condoms and the wet bathroom towels; something to separate the time she spent with us from the time she spent with someone… Read More »

SOFT SEX – HARD SEX

I suppose that, if I were less of a prude, I might have called this post “Making Love And Fucking” but “Fucking” is not a word I wanted to see in the title of a post. Still prudish after all this time. Over the last couple of years it has been a truly wonderful thing to return to… Read More »

MY NAKED MISTRESS

“Could we try something a little different? I’d like you to dress like you just walked the dog, wear no makeup and, at the end of the session, be completely naked as you beat me?” Not all Mistresses are looking for this level of input to a session but Elita has always been great about… Read More »

CONSENT – four questions from GOTN

She’s nearly naked, just a few square inches of a sheer swimsuit fails miserably to conceal her beautiful body. Her wrists are in cuffs, stretched upwards and tied to the wooden beam of my Airbnb cottage in the grounds of a large manor house. I happen to know no-one is there. We are completely alone.… Read More »

THE HUG (#2-The Dom)

“The best place in the world is inside a hug” I wrote a post that supported that idea, describing the wonderful hug the Mistress gives me after a hard session. My second hug story is different. And it’s going to make you angry

J’S TALE – guest post

I always enjoy it when I can provide a platform for a kinky male who, like me, leads a life where a significant part of their true selves is “in the closet.” It’s fun to give such folk a chance to peek out of the closet and tell their story.

FROM BEHIND – (kink of the week)

Of course, going behind, or having sex “Doggy style,” as this weeks Kink Of The Week topic puts it, CAN be about making love rather than fucking. (If you’re the type of person that likes to draw that distinction. I am, by the way).

RECIPE – mixing up a session

This started life as a post for the theme of chemistry on Wicked Wednesday but I found I was having to force fit what I wanted to write into the theme and just sort of stopped. I decided to finish it off anyway, unconstrained by the chemistry idea.

BEHIND THE BLINDFOLD – (kink of the week)

The first time a Mistress blindfolded me, I hated it. She was amazingly beautiful and dressed in expensive, skin tight leather which she paraded in front of me for five minutes before putting me in a blindfold for the rest of the session. I didn’t understand it.