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KATIE, SEX WORKER (kotw)

Katie broke a bone in her hand. She did this the day after she moved to a new apartment, the worst possible time for her. For others, having a wrist in a cast (not even her writing hand) would be an inconvenience, but for Katie it means she can’t work for a month. Sex workers don’t… Read More »

BDSM AS THERAPY – OR NOT

A year ago I had a session of such brutal intensity that I broke down and cried, sobbing into Mistress Elita’s shoulder as she held me. I described how my British reserves had been “stripped away by Elita’s whip, as efficiently as a steamer strips away old wallpaper, leaving what’s underneath seeming fresh and new.”

A LIFE IN THREE TWEETS

A life in three tweets. Well, not a life exactly, but important elements of it. Also a summation of what has been in my head since I spent a whole night in a kinky dungeon B&B with the completely lovely Lilly Watson before Christmas; feelings and thoughts which were amplified by hot BDSM play with her and… Read More »

TEN POSTS – a year of blogging

This is a bit self-indulgent but I justify picking out this selection of earlier posts as a chance for new readers to explore the wealth of perversions available here! The New Voices award from Kink Craft’s Top 100 Sex Bloggers  has bought new folk here, so hopefully I can encourage them to read a little… Read More »

MISTRESS IN A DRESS – or out of it

If I use words like Mistress or Dominatrix what picture do you have? My guess is that you will imagine a beautiful woman, an authoritative presence, perhaps carrying a whip. But what is this woman wearing? Is she in tight fitting, body enhancing clothes of leather or rubber? Clothes that seem to mark her out as a High… Read More »

PLEASE – begging for it

When I read this powerful piece of F/m filth from Skinshallows, I thought it was burst-into-flames hot. She asks her submissive to accept a succession of increasingly violent assaults in order to satisfy her sadistic and sexual need. I related to it, not least for its fantastic fusion of violence and intimacy.  My only issue with… Read More »