Monthly Archives: August 2016


How on earth did I let this happen? On what planet could it possibly have seemed a good idea? I suppose the answer is that, when I suggested the upcoming session, I had just come through a prolonged caning from Mistress Elita, who had been in a particularly vicious mood. It had left me high as a kite on a heady cocktail of adrenaline and endorphins. I had experienced the thrill of having been tested and survived and wanted to be there again.

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WHAT KATIE DID NEXT – beyond spanking

Why am I so nervous for this session? It’s not even me that’s getting beaten up. I’m seeing an American submissive, the beautiful Katie and, while I might let her hit me a few times, this is all about letting my dominant, spanky side out to play for a change. I’ve told her that I want a formal punishment session, rather than the light-hearted spanking and nipple play of our first meeting.

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Elust 85 – lots of hot writing

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BEACH ENCOUNTER – lives collide

I’d been conscious of the pretty girl and her mother since we arrived at the small beach-side hotel. The mother, 40-something, was bubbly, slim and attractive but her daughter, early twenties and just out of University, was a babe.  Physically, she was undoubtedly a beautiful creature but what had caught my attention was the way she carried herself. She had a poise, a calm about her that is quite uncommon, but that almost forced you to watch when she crossed a room. When talking she looked directly into your face with her beautiful blue eyes in a way that was mesmerising.

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MIXING IT UP – top? bottom? both?

I like to switch. I suppose If I had to define where I sit on an imaginary dom/sub spectrum I would pick 70% submissive/masochistic and 30% dominant/sadistic. However I particularly love scenes where these roles are mixed up, or where I can play both roles simultaneously. There is a whole world of fun to be had by avoiding labels and letting the kinky imagination run free. Here are a couple of scenes I have played that do just that.

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SOUNDING OUT – kink of the week

I didn’t really want to write this post. Sounding: having specially designed rods pushed into your penis  as part of a BDSM session, is my hardest of hard limits. Its the first thing on the (fairly short) list of things I tell a new Mistress I WILL NOT tolerate and IS NOT TO BE INCLUDED in our session. There is a reason why this is so.

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