Monthly Archives: January 2017


My earliest lesson on the importance of safewords was a harsh one. In my very first session with a professional Mistress, and with no experience whatsoever, the physical and emotional shock of her assault on me was so great that I blanked the safeword, forgot even that I had given her a safeword before the… Read More »

CHESTERFIELD – sinful sunday

This chair is in our bedroom. It’s a very fine Chesterfield sofa. I have had a bit of a thing about this type of chair, ever since I was pushed over the arm of one and flogged. The Chesterfield could have been invented solely for this purpose; it could have been advertised with the tagline:… Read More »

CHESTERFIELD – not just a chair

In the second part of Lars von Trier’s epic sexploration film, Nymphomaniac, Jamie Bell’s character gives two ferocious beatings to Charlotte Gainsbourg; one with a riding crop,  the second with a self made cat-o-nine-tails. She is tied down over the rolled arms of an ancient Chesterfield sofa for both punishments.

FLAME – @19Syllables for Sinful Sunday

As this is the 300th Sinful Sunday, Molly is hoping to reach a record number of posts. By way of ‘doing my bit’ I offered twitter friend @19Syllables the opportunity to publish an image on my blog as a guest post. She came up with the beautiful image and words below.