DOMINATRIX (sunful sunday)
Mistress Elita. Dominatrix, photographer, musician. After nearly three years our sessions still have the capacity to surprise.
Author Archives: Bibulous
A PUBLIC LITTLE SESSION (sinful sunday)
It’s all about context. My Sinful Sunday picture is “just” a pretty girl in a bar; not showing any flesh; not being particularly provocative. I guess if you had been there you might have wondered at the 6’2″ man with the diminutive and much younger woman. You might have wondered at their occasional contact, a… Read More »
KATIE, SEX WORKER (kotw)
Katie broke a bone in her hand. She did this the day after she moved to a new apartment, the worst possible time for her. For others, having a wrist in a cast (not even her writing hand) would be an inconvenience, but for Katie it means she can’t work for a month. Sex workers don’t… Read More »
THE GODDESS
“My worshipper, can you see how beautiful I am? Is worshipping me not your highest ambition? Will you suffer for me, my worshipper? How much will you suffer for me?”
I SAW KATIE AGAIN (sinful sunday)
I saw Katie again I probably shouldn’t I saw Katie again I’d said that I wouldn’t
PROFESSIONAL SUBMISSIVE
I saw Katie again. I hadn’t really meant to but our last session had been great, so just a couple of weeks later, and once again contemplating a lonely night in a hotel room, I contacted her. As before, we had a lot of fun; all kinds of hot, spanky sex.
ON THE HANDS
It’s like nothing else in BDSM. Nothing. You’d think it wouldn’t be eroticisable, being hit on the hands with a tawse. But it’s hot. It’s intensely, coruscatingly hot. A moment of supreme violence, carried out face to face, kinky electricity crackling between giver and receiver.
SELF HARM OR SELF TREATMENT? (sinful sunday)
My Sinful Sunday image this week links to my recent post where I found myself exploring the boundary between erotic masochism and self harm in a very aaah ‘practical’ way.
NOT GOING GREAT
The truth is, it isn’t going great and, more importantly, I’m not handling it very well.
DOM IN A SUIT (sinful sunday)
I admit it. I quite enjoy the “Dom in a Suit, girl in lingerie” trope. I’ve played with it before. I can see why people have trouble with the patriarchal symbolism that comes with it, but it’s a role I like to play rather than who I am. At least, I think it is.
You little… (talking dirty)
“I’m going to hurt you and you’re going to ask for more, like the submissive little pain slut you are.” “Yes, Sir. Thank you, Sir. That’s what I want, Sir.”
WEEKEND (sinful sunday)
Strange weekend, this. It’s my wife’s sixtieth birthday weekend and the house will be full of her family, most of whom know that we’re getting divorced.